Here's the scenario, you have just broken up with your girlfriend the night before and you are not sure what just took place. You thought the two of you had a good thing going when all of a sudden your girl friend told you she was breaking up with you. You did not even see it coming. Sometimes men just can't accept the fact that their girlfriend would just walk out on them.
The next morning you wake up and think that you misunderstood what she was doing, she could not have broke up with me you think and you want to call her to find out what's going on. She says yes she's done, what do you do now. First thing is do not keep calling her bugging her for an explanation as to why she left. Spend this time to really think about what may have brought this on. Could you have been the cause of it.
Be honest with yourself, if you were the cause, is it something you truly can fix or are you always going to do what caused the breakup. Give your ex time to herself so she can also think about what went on. If the reasons that she left you were because of you being possessive or pushy with her that could be a difficult thing to over come. She may not want to repeat that if you try to get back together.
If you determine that you really can fix the problem and truly care about your ex from your heart and your not just being possessive, then after a cooling down period you may try to call your ex to say hi but don't push the issue of getting back together right away give it time and try to open up friendly communication with her. There are some good strategies that you can use for getting back with your ex, check out some of the books that are available for this.
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